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Managing Stress as a Couple | Gottman-Inspired Couples Worksheet
Stress can quickly turn partners against each other — even when the real problem is everything happening around them.

Managing Stress as a Couple is a practical, professionally designed worksheet that helps couples slow down, identify what is creating pressure, communicate more effectively, and reconnect as partners.

This resource is designed for use in couples therapy, premarital counseling, relationship education, or at-home reflection and draws on Gottman-informed relationship concepts such as stress-reducing conversations, turning toward one another, validation, and maintaining a united mindset.

What This Worksheet Helps Couples Do
❤️ Identify the source of current stress
💬 Have a more supportive stress-reducing conversation
🤝 Listen without immediately trying to fix the problem
🌿 Practice validation and emotional support
🫶 Recognize and respond to bids for connection
✨ Remember that stress is the problem — not each other

The 3-Step Framework
1. Identify the Stressor
Couples explore common sources of stress including:
Work
Finances
Relationship concerns
Family responsibilities
Schedule overload
Change and uncertainty

2. Have a Stress-Reducing Conversation
A simple guide helps partners practice listening, understanding, validation, affection, and support before jumping into problem-solving.

3. Approach Stress as a Couple
Couples are encouraged to turn toward one another, notice everyday bids for connection, and create a shared reminder for difficult moments.

Perfect For
Couples therapists
Psychologists
Marriage and family therapists
Counselors
Social workers
Premarital counseling
Marriage enrichment
Relationship coaching
Couples completing therapy homework
Couples wanting better communication at home

What You’ll Receive
1 printable Managing Stress as a Couple worksheet
US Letter size — 8.5" × 11"
Digital PDF
Instant download
Easy to print at home or in the office

Created by a Licensed Psychologist
This worksheet was thoughtfully designed with real-life clinical use in mind — practical enough for clients to actually use, while maintaining a calm, professional aesthetic appropriate for adult couples.

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This is a digital download only. No physical product will be shipped.
For personal or professional use with your own clients. The digital file may not be redistributed, resold, shared, or incorporated into another product.

Please note: This resource is independently created and is not affiliated with or endorsed by The Gottman Institute.

✨ A simple tool to help couples move from “you versus me” to “how do we handle this together?”

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